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Learning to Drive (and Teach) Means Hitting a Few Bumps

Recently, I’ve written and podcasted a lot  about my son learning to drive. So, I thought you might like a quick update.

My son, who just a few months ago was nervously circling the parking lot, is now less than a month away from turning 16. Yikes. And in preparation for that moment, he is driving more and more.

And while I’d love to tell you it’s been a smooth, completely uneventful and unexciting ride, it has not.

It hasn’t been horrible either—but let me paint the picture.

 

Garage Frames, Mailboxes, and Imaginary Brakes 

A few weeks ago, my son was pulling into the garage—nice and slow, doing everything right, checking everything around him. When… bump—side mirror meets garage frame.

It left a little mark on the mirror, but we were both okay.

Then another day, he was backing out of our driveway with my wife and gently tapped a neighbor’s mailbox. (In case our neighbors are avid readers of my blog—there was no real damage, but still, it was a whole thing.)

We’ve also had:

  • Some very close calls in busy parking lots 
  • A few too-tight turns 
  • More than one moment where my wife or I instinctively reached for the imaginary brake pedal on the passenger side 

If you’re a parent—or have ever taught a teenager to drive—you know these moments are not the exception. They’re part of the process.

 

Mistakes Aren’t Signs of Failure—They’re Steps Toward Mastery

Here’s what I keep telling him:
The bumps along the way? They’re not signs you’re doing it wrong. They’re how you get better.

Because if we expect every step of the learning journey to be perfect, we’re setting ourselves (and our kids) up for disappointment.

Even worse, we’re teaching students to fear mistakes instead of learning from them.

 

Sound Familiar, Teachers? You Are Learning Too.

Right now, many educators are doing something brave. You may be:

  • Exploring AI tools 
  • Implementing a new curriculum 
  • Handing over more control to students 
  • Trying out fresh tech tools 

And you know what? It’s not going to be perfect.
 The chatbot might not answer the way you expected.
 The new tool might be blocked by your school’s firewall.
 The lesson might flop.
 Students might not engage the way you’d hoped.

And yeah, sometimes you back into a metaphorical mailbox.

 

That’s Where the Growth Happens.

Especially when we reflect.

In design thinking, there’s a concept called “failing forward.” It means that instead of fearing failure, we build it in. We plan for bumps and treat them like feedback, not disasters.

And that’s what my son is doing:

  • Every awkward left turn 
  • Every too-close curb 
  • Every “oops” moment 

All of it is shaping him into a better, more confident driver.

But here’s the key: it’s not just the experience. It’s the reflection.
 Often, that reflection requires a little honest feedback from my wife or me. Sometimes it’s a casual “Next time, go slower into the turn.”
 Sometimes it’s, well, louder. 😅

But the growth doesn’t come from getting everything right.
 It comes from knowing what to do when you don’t.

 

It’s the Same for Us And For Our Students

Trying something new in the classroom—especially something as big as AI—isn’t always easy. You’ll have missteps. Mistakes. Headaches.

But every misstep is a moment to:

  • Learn 
  • Recalibrate 
  • Try again 
  • And model resilience and a growth mindset for your students 

That last part? It might be the most important of all. Students don’t just need to see success. They need to see how we handle the bumps, how we stay calm (mostly), reflect, and adjust.

 

Wherever You Are, It’s Okay

Maybe you’re still circling the parking lot.
 Maybe you just had your first mailbox moment.
 Maybe you’re cautiously merging onto the highway.

Wherever you are, please remember this:

The bumpy road is the process.
 You don’t have to be perfect.
 You just have to keep learning.

And hey, if you ever need someone to hit the imaginary brake pedal or yell “STOP SIGN! STOP SIGN! STOP SIGN!”—reach out, because I’ve got a lot of practice. 😉

 

Your Turn 

Have you had your own “garage bump” moment with a new lesson, tool, or classroom idea?

Share it in the comments below.
 We’d love to hear how you’re failing forward—and what you’ve learned from it.

Let’s normalize the messiness of learning for students and teachers alike.